I believe you spoke to a guy once, here, DN. He had a 'Ghostly in the Smoke' piccie in his profile - which you joked about being a 'Black & White Minstrel.' The shmuck was pining over a 'Never Be Mine' friendship, and you consoled him.
He moved on, and so have you, since then. Well, to some extent, anyways, I guess.
But ain't it funny how life doesn't really change that much - no matter how hard we try to change IT.
I have wrestled with 'Closure' - and the door just won't stay shut. Closure seems too negative and final. I have started to work with 'Acceptance' - and that seems better for me. It's more positive and on-going.
There is nothing beyond Closure, and I hate that - but there is a path which stretches out beyond 'Acceptance.' I am treading that. Going forward - AT LAST.